Approaching Girls on Singapore Streets: – MyDayGameJourney is taking a Hiatus

21 Jul

I’m not sure if i should consider myself lucky. but I’m together with a girl now — only the 7th girl I’ve approached on the Singapore streets.

Truth be told, my reports are a little back-dated, I’m currently up to my 23rd approach. And I’m fortunate to have enough background knowledge in game to pick things up pretty quickly. Unfortunately, I do feel a sense of guilt in me every time I approach now – a feeling that I’m disappointing someone whom i care for. Therefore, I’ve decided to take a hiatus, and see where I go with this girl.


For now.

To satisfy your curiosity, here’s a quick Daygame report on how i closed her

  • Saw her with a guy outside NTUC  (a supermarket/grocery store in Singapore)
  • The guy left her, and she entered the supermarket
  • I followed
  • she was picking up some candy from the confectionery section, and i seriously CHICKENED OUT when I saw so many people near her. (I hate people listening over my shoulders when i pick up — i’ve even had someone taking pictures of me when i picked up this girl. YES, some people are weird here)
  • I grabbed something that I was supposed to buy anyway
  • Queued up behind her at the counter
  • She paid and walked off
  • In my head, I was like “FUCK!”
  • I grabbed my crap after paying for it
  • Ran up the escalator
  • Tapped her elbow from behind
  • Opened her straight out with my standard line — “Hey.. i know this is really random.. but  i was in your queue in the grocery store, & i thought you looked really cute. So i thought i’d talk to you to see what kind of person you were”
  • She giggled
  • And we talked talked talked
  • I asked her where she lived, and it was close-by, and i decided to walk her home
  • Number closed right at her door-step

I guess all of us have different objectives in Daygame dating.

  • Some of us just want to sleep with girls
  • Others just want to get over that approach anxiety that they’ve already grown to overcome in Night Game
  • For me, it is merely a personal challenge to get over approach anxiety, and open up my options on the streets

… And I’m now a contented and happy man. 😉

But if you’re a Daygamer from Singapore reading this, I’d still love to hear from you & know how you’re doing in your efforts.

Because I love Daygame, & I still look forward to developing the Daygame Community in Singapore for the long haul. Singapore guys are too shy for their own good.





twitter ID: daygamejourney


P.S. I’d like to take this chance to thank all the kind fellow bloggers who’ve commented and even put me on your blog roll. DON’T WORRY — I’ll be back.


7 Responses to “Approaching Girls on Singapore Streets: – MyDayGameJourney is taking a Hiatus”

  1. Future July 21, 2010 at 12:58 am #

    It doesn’t make you lucky. It makes you normal. Most guys have a spasm of fortune when they first get a handle on this stuff, and they eventually find a girl who is cooler and better looking than anyone they’ve ever dated, so they throw their hands up in victory and declare themselves out of the game. It’s a cycle as old as the community itself.

    I hope this relationship is awesome, and I hope she’s a kind, considerate, freaky girl. I will advise that she is still a girl, so don’t beat yourself up when the “sweet and flexible stage” (as my mother calls it) ends.

    I wish you luck, congratulations, and optimism in the face of adversity.

    • Phronesis (Singapore) July 21, 2010 at 10:21 am #

      Hi Future,

      Thanks for e comment 😉

      well, she wasn’t e best looking in e lot.

      what did it for me was that I felt “normal” being me around her. I’ve done social game in school with some success. But all e success was using routines.. n applying a personality that wasn’t really me. N I’ve come to realise tt I felt artificial in some of those relationships

      We’ll see how it goes,
      Maybe I’ll be bk soon? ;D

  2. Vincent Ignatius July 22, 2010 at 10:43 pm #


    Stay in the game to get better.

    • Phronesis (Singapore) July 23, 2010 at 12:12 am #

      Hi Vincent,

      haha, I’m still young. I’ll b back.
      so do u ever get into relationships?

      • Vincent Ignatius July 23, 2010 at 2:09 am #

        Yes, but I’m never monogamous. There are advantages to having a girlfriend, but I never stop picking up other chicks on the side.

  3. Andy Yosha August 27, 2010 at 9:55 am #

    Loving the direct approach! Definitely the way forward. Check out when you get a chance – my contribution to the awesome art of daygame 🙂

  4. Colin November 5, 2014 at 9:53 am #

    Interesting story. Good job man

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