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REVIEW: Powers of Attraction (POA) Preview

26 Nov

Went for the POA (Powers of Attraction) preview course today after receiving a kind invitation from Paul Teo to meet some like-minded Singapore PUAs.

It was awesome to see some GENUINE self-belief in attendees after the highly-relevant role-plays and visuals examples. And i think that Paul and his guys (we’ll credit them as “S” and “J”) were doing a fantastic job in wiping away some ingrained self-inhibiting beliefs to make it seem perfectly fine to walk up to a girl, strike a conversation, and ask for a number.

Even though i’ve never been a fan of BootCamps (i seriously don’t believe 3 days of work can do anything much to restructure 30-years of in-built trash beliefs) – i think Paul has successfully created a self-sustaining community that will provide much needed support to his POA’s Bootcamp-gradients through their not-so-easy initial steps. Also, there is a 6-month mentorship assurance. impressive.

I personally believe that a great peer-support system is more crucial than ever. Thus from a slightly more experienced PUA’s point-of-view, I’d recommend POA’s Bootcamp as your best-bet if you’re looking to improve yourself in the Long Run. Why go through the tough journey alone?

Love,
Phronesis

My Daygame Objectives for Year 2011: by Phronesis Singapore

26 Nov

It’s been a blistering past couple of weeks

– Just got back into Daygame for a couple of weeks after a 3 month hiatus.ย 
– Picked up about 15 women to get back up to speed. (Been trying to do at least 1 per day)
– Set up Project Daygame Singapore – and brought some Fantastic Daygame PUAs together to support one another and grow as a Team.ย 
– Put up Social Media infrastructure to build and record our progress Digitally

..and now finally, i’ve had time to think about some simple things i want to achieve by the 1st quarter of 2011 (more specifically, 30ย March 2011)

Mindset Achievements

– Become comfortable with people listening to my Daygame pick-up (I still feel self-conscious, but logically speaking — why should we even give a fuck about these people whom we’ll never see again)

Situational Achievements

– To be comfortable in approaching women inside MRT
– To be comfortable in approaching women on the MRT platforms
– STAY IN SET (for women who give me 1 word answers)
– STAY IN SET (for women who seem like they want to walk away)

Style Achievements

– To be proficient in Indirect Approaches as well
– To develop a mandarin script for Chinese speaking women (40% of the women so happen to be primarily chinese speaking)

Have you made your Daygame Resolutions?

What are some of the resolutions you’ve set yourself for Daygame. Would LOVE to hear them in the comments section.
If you haven’t done anything — perhaps its time you start.

Love,
Phronesis

Why is Phronesis back?

25 Nov

I promised you guys that i’d explain why i’m back — and here i am. ๐Ÿ˜‰

I think Game is little bit of a paradox.

When you don’t know anything about it you get nowhere. But the more you know you know, you get so far ahead and develop such an abundance of choice that it seems that you become so willing to drop things – to go in search for even more answers.

I guess that was how my relationship ended. With every minor quarrel i had with her, the more i wondered, “is she the one?” — even though there was this other voice in my head trying to help her by saying “perhaps there is no perfect woman out there, perhaps they’re all like that, and PERHAPS you’re supposed to work things out instead of trying to find someone new all the time”.

But at the end of it all, i’ve found myself single again — trying to dig deep within me for the meaning in all this. It seems to have become a repetitive cycle for me. (it’s happened approximately 6 consecutive times?)

Usual Process of my Relationships

– Boy meets girl (in the usual bloody charming kinda way)
– Game game game
– Gets together with girl
– Gets kinda creeped out by girl’s neediness (which is perhaps a natural reaction)
– I start getting annoyed at girl for minor things (perhaps due to low attraction to her due to her newly revealed neediness)
– I start pondering whether 1) i should stick to the girl (because I can’t keep running away from these annoying arguments) — or 2) I should find someone that was “more compatible”
– I get opportunistically pissed at the next smallest incident OR just declaring that the feeling is lost
– I suggest a break-up
– I try my best to mend things in the prettiest way to keep her as a friend

Is this similar to a rich person who finds that he’s not yet contented with life, and decides to pursue even more riches in order to find “happiness” — Perhaps without realising that maybe happiness isn’t all about money, and perhaps he could satiate his thirst by merely looking within?

I’d like to ask all the PUAs out their opinions on these issues, hopefully you could share with me your perspectives — on how a man with Abundance should approach such issues

1. What do you think of the above? (u can be truthful) ๐Ÿ˜‰
2. Do you think that quarrelling (even though they’re small issues) equates incompatibility?
3. Does attraction always drop after you get attached to the girl?
4. Do you think that one should work on issues… or find someone more compatible?
5. How’d you know if you should settle down with the girl?

I’d be glad to know your answers in the comments below.

– Pondering Phronesis

Feels Good to be Back in the (Day)game

31 Oct

Ladies & Gentlemen, I apologize for momentary absense. In a future post, I will clarify all that has happened. ๐Ÿ˜‰

But that being sad – I am back with a vengeance.

Project Daygame Singapore is now up @ http://www.DaygameSingapore.com

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Love,

Phronesis

Approaching Girls on Singapore Streets: – MyDayGameJourney is taking a Hiatus

21 Jul

I’m not sure if i should consider myself lucky. but I’m together with a girl now — only the 7th girl I’ve approached on the Singapore streets.

Truth be told, my reports are a little back-dated, I’m currently up to my 23rd approach. And I’m fortunate to have enough background knowledge in game to pick things up pretty quickly. Unfortunately, I do feel a sense of guilt in me every time I approach now – a feeling that I’m disappointing someone whom i care for. Therefore, I’ve decided to take a hiatus, and see where I go with this girl.

My_DayGame_Journey_Dating_PUA_Singapore_byebye

For now.

To satisfy your curiosity, here’s a quick Daygame report on how i closed her

  • Saw her with a guy outside NTUC ย (a supermarket/grocery store in Singapore)
  • The guy left her, and she entered the supermarket
  • I followed
  • she was picking up some candy from the confectionery section, and i seriously CHICKENED OUT when I saw so many people near her. (I hate people listening over my shoulders when i pick up — i’ve even had someone taking pictures of me when i picked up this girl. YES, some people are weird here)
  • I grabbed something that I was supposed to buy anyway
  • Queued up behind her at the counter
  • She paid and walked off
  • In my head, I was like “FUCK!”
  • I grabbed my crap after paying for it
  • Ran up the escalator
  • Tapped her elbow from behind
  • Opened her straight out with my standard line — “Hey.. i know this is really random.. but ย i was in your queue in the grocery store, & i thought you looked really cute. So i thought i’d talk to you to see what kind of person you were”
  • She giggled
  • And we talked talked talked
  • I asked her where she lived, and it was close-by, and i decided to walk her home
  • Number closed right at her door-step

I guess all of us have different objectives in Daygame dating.

  • Some of us just want to sleep with girls
  • Others just want to get over that approach anxiety that they’ve already grown to overcome in Night Game
  • For me, it is merely a personal challenge to get over approach anxiety, and open up my options on the streets

… And I’m now a contented and happy man. ๐Ÿ˜‰

But if you’re a Daygamer from Singapore reading this, I’d still love to hear from you & know how you’re doing in your efforts.

Because I love Daygame, & I still look forward to developing the Daygame Community in Singapore for the long haul. Singapore guys are too shy for their own good.

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Love,

Phronesis

twitter ID: daygamejourney

facebook.com/phronesis.singapore

phronesis.singapore@gmail.com

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P.S. I’d like to take this chance to thank all the kind fellow bloggers who’ve commented and even put me on your blog roll. DON’T WORRY — I’ll be back.

A DayGame Blog by a Singaporean Boy

15 Apr

Hello,

Well, this should be interesting.

It’s my very first serious blog. And i’m happy to say that whatever goes in here, will be truthful thoughts from me, as I’ve decided to pen this blog freely under the name “Phronesis”, a Greek term linked to social-situation-intelligence.

I’ve been in “the game” for 1 or 2yrs already. I sarge in school (a singaporean university) and enjoy good social status and good success in dating.

However, the girl on the street eludes me. And I’m frustrated at always missing out on beautiful women who look so crazilly intriguing.

Life’s too short to let tt cool person walk by.

I hope u enjoy reading this blog.

I’ve no choice but to be in this. As they say..

If you want to win the lottery — you have to be in it

Love,
Phronesis